The difference

As we give of ourselves, of our patience and love, to someone else who needs it more, something changes inside us. Something flows in, a flow of good feeling. A spiritual upliftment occurs both in us and in the person receiving the love.
— Sri Harold Klemp (The Language of God)

Decisions are to be taken not swept under the carpet.

Its not about failing, its about taking decision and to live by the results. It may not be our liking. A lot of us afraid to make decisions and ithis indeciveness actually brought us down far more faster then whatever we complaining about.

So thedifference actually lies with the decisions we make. Rather then procastinating or siting on it until such time that we are comfortable with it. And normally we wont be comfortable with it, infact we will face dateline and it will force us to decide. Which could be disastrous as we were actully didnt thought of it much more then you would liked.

Let me introduce a technique that i have recently started to apply to make decision or to come to terms with our inner self. From what i have practiced, just write down of what you think of the situation, what problmes might arise or whatever that will make u feel good. Just keep on writing anything that comes to mind, just keep on adding. What you are doing actually brainstorming with yourself, if we go deeper.. brainstorming with your innerself.

You will be surprised by the feeling that is generated by this exercise and how it could help you with your decision making process.

Thats for now. May the blessings be.